Girls, here's a tip. Go out and buy yourself a nice big folder. The ring binder type is good. Something that you can keep adding to. Call it your 'Wedding Folder'. The only reason I know anything about this is because Kayla bought a 'Wedding Folder' the day after we got engaged. And the only reason I'm talking about it is because it became our most important wedding planning resource. Kayla divided it up into sections - receipts, ideas, booking forms, correspondence, stationery... that kind of thing. In that folder went everything even remotely related to our wedding: pictures of dresses, hair styles, suits, cakes, flowers etc that we liked. Info packs from venues we'd visited, emails from suppliers we were using, receipts for every-single-little-thing we bought. Copies of all our stationery, fabric samples of dresses and copies of our vows and speeches. That folder became our wedding bible and the single most helpful wedding resource we had. Having everything in one organised place in a form we could take to consultations, rehearsals and family meetings, meant no mis-communication or second guessing. About anything. Now our wedding is over, our wedding folder has become like a journal, telling the story of the path we travelled. We'll treasure looking through it, pulling out our invites, laughing at the amount on the receipt for the dress (instead of sweating about it), and remembering one of the most exciting, scary, frustrating and enjoyable times in our life. Trust me, you'll come to obsess over, and love, that Wedding Folder. Cheers, Nigel